Happy Halloween! Featuring: The Dean Witch Project
Many of you may have seen this, since it was "released" last year, but it's still fantastic:
Derby Girl (Now called "Whip It"), Shauna Cross
Secrets of My Suburban Life, Lauren Baratz-Logsted
Both unfinished due to profanity and just not being my style of book.
Now, Jo asked a wonderful question when I said that I wouldn't stand for profanity. Her question: Why?
I rate a book kind of like a movie. I don't see R rated movies, ever, so I won't read "R" rated books. My only real problem is with the "F" word, or very heavy usage of unncessary profanity(things that don't add to the story at all). If the story is good, I will tolerate one "F", but if it's not, I'm done. With Skinned I went through 3 before I finally put it down.
And I think maybe I should state that I didn't not finish all of these books just this week. These are books that I haven't finished over the last 18 months. This will probably be my last "Unfinished Friday" for a while, because these are the last of the books I didn't finish. I usually stick with a book. And if I do set it down for reasons other than profanity, I'll probably pick it back up later.
I don't believe that books should be suffered through, or that they should leaving you feeling "dirty." I'd much rather write a "why I didn't finish" post and have someone else read it and love it, than write I "I really wish I hadn't read this" post and write a negative review that makes someone never touch the book.
Plus, there are so many good books out there! I'm not going to suffer by skipping a few. I'm constantly branching out my horizons. But, in doing so, I've found genre's I don't like, just like everyone else. Some people don't like Sci-fi (crazy fools!), I don't like angsty books.
Skinned, by Robin Wasserman
Fire, by Kristin Cashore
The Gurnsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society, by Mary Ann Schaffer
And Maximum Ride: The Angel Experiment, by James Patterson
I know some of these books may be considered "Old News" as they've been out for a while, but I just barely heard about them. So I'm really excited to read them. I'm starting with Skinned.
All right! He's all set. I had 244 entries, so I asked each of my roomates to pick a number between 1-244, and then averaged all of their numbers. They chose 200, 37, 123, and 72, which equals 432. 432/4 = 108
Hooray for #108!
Cate from Sparrow reviews!!!
So, just e-mail me your address and I'll ship off your copy of Ice. If I haven't heard from you by Wednesday the 21st, then I have to pick a new winner.
Thanks for everyone who participated. Keep an eye out for even more contests. *wink wink*
~Enna Isilee
Arranged
Marriage
I'm sure I'm not the only one who's noticed that an arranged marriage is not an uncommon plot point. But... has anyone else noticed that they always seem to work out?
I'm trying to think of a book where an arranged marriage made the characters unhappy (after they met each other). I can think of some where the main characters parents were... apathetic, but not unhappy.
In real life, an arranged marriage isn't quite so lucky. Here's an interesting article I found on the subject:
"Arranged marriages have been a topic of interest for centuries. Authors across the ages have explored this theme at length, and it still surfaces in literary works today. What's the appeal? Is it the fascination with the lack of lust and desire we cultivate in North American society? We strive on the element of danger, of the forbidden, while an arranged marriage is usually a safe way to ensure a family's approval of a union.
"But how are suitable spouses chosen? In Japan, for instance, "when a woman reaches the marriageable age of 25, she and her parents compile a packet of information about her, including a photograph of her in a kimono and descriptions of her family background, education, hobbies, accomplishments and interests. Her parents then inquire among their friends and acquaintances to see if anyone knows a man who would be a suitable husband for her" (the Asia Society's Video Letter from Japan: My Family, 1988). Usually, the most important aspect of choosing a suitable spouse is the bond between the two families, rather than the relationship between the couple being married. Property or land with the aim of securing social status sometimes seals marriage agreements."
Which is why we see it so many times with royalty. Yeah? That's perfectly understandable. But, do arranged marriages work?
"Opinions tend to differ. Statistics place the divorce rate for arranged marriages much lower than those in the United States, where marriages out of love are the rule. However, research also shows that the pressure a married couple encounters from both society as a whole, and from the respective families, suggests that divorce is often not an option."
So, divorce rates are lower, but is it because they're happy? Or because divorce is not an option?
What do you think? Do you think arranged marriages are really sucessful and that books are just reflecting this? Or do you think they over inflate the likelyhood of happiness?
On another level, do you think too many books use this? Do you like this plot point?
And, discuss.
:)
~Enna Isilee
This article quoted throughout post
I hope some of you became followers of my blog, because here comes the giveaway! It's going to be a little more complicated them my last "just comment" question.
I am giving away a hardcover copy of this book. It comes out tomorrow, so I'll have an official copy for you, hot off the press. Just waiting to be your's.
This will be an entry-based giveaway. More entries, bigger chances to win! So, how do you entry? Well, many of you already have and don't even know it!
Entry System:
4 entries for being a follower before my review of Ice (before October 3rd)
3 entries for being a follower between my review of Ice and now (October 3rd 4pm-October 5th 4pm)
2 entries for becoming a follower now (after October 5th 4pm)
1 entry if you are a subscriber on Reader
As a bonus, anyone who follows my blog, I'll return the favor and follow yours!
Don't want to become a follower? You can still enter the contest
Blog about this giveaway(no sidebar links), including a link to this post, and you'll get three entries. And to make it even easier, I've written a post for you! Just copy and paste this into your blog!
So you could have as many as 7 entries! Entries will end at 11:59pm (MST) on Wednesday, October 14th Winner will be announced Thursday, October 15th.
A WARNING: YOU MUST COMMENT TO BE CONSIDERED FOR THIS GIVEAWAY IF YOU WERE ONE OF THE ORIGINAL FOLLOWERS. (after all, how do I know you're still around?)
In your comment all you have to do is post your name. I don't mean your name I mean your username. So, for example, I would just comment "Enna Isilee" and that's it. Unless you want the 3 entries for posting it on your blog. Then you post your name and a link to your post. So an example comment:
Enna Isilee
http://www.squeakybooks.com/contestpost
I was a follower on Reader!
That would get you 4 entries. :)
Thats it!
I should have done something more creative, something cold-themed. But I've found that more people enter when there's less work involved. But I'm telling you, this book is worth it.
Any questions? Feel free to ask.
Want another chance to win ice? Head over to this fabulous butterfly-themed blog where a similar contest is going on.